
releases "sassy era" single
May 29, 2025
Interview with Story DeWeese
Photos Courtesy of Nats Grain and Justin Patterson
Singer, composer and actor Ben Krieger discussed music, movies, magic and more with Music Forever Magazine’s Story DeWeese. Originally from West Palm Beach, Florida, Krieger recently embarked on a solo road trip to start a new life in LA following the theme of his song “rockstar!” Talking about inspiration and family as well as the feeling of performing, Krieger describes his experience as a musician, singer and performer, “The stage is where I feel I belong most, playing music.” In terms of his life goal, Krieger hopes to, “...look back when I’m ninety and become overwhelmed with the amount of joy that I can remember.” His single, "i dont even know you" is set to release on June 6th, 2025. Pre-save the single on Spotify here. Stay up-to-date on his latest projects by following along on his Instagram or catch him performing originals, covers and even taking song requests on his TikTok Lives. Take a look at Krieger’s life and love for music in his own words:
Story: Ben! Hello, how are you?
Ben: I'm good. How are you?
I'm good. Thanks so much for joining me…
Yeah, of course. Thanks…
Yeah, of course…I just wanted to go ahead and get started and…learn a little bit about you and your music and your process and everything. But first of all, this is the most important question that I ask you: What's your go-to Chipotle order?
Oh, that's good! Okay, so, a bowl, of course, I do a bowl because I feel like that's the most food. People think that [the] burrito is the most food, [but] I'm sold on the fact that…you get the most food out of a bowl. So, [a] bowl, white rice, black beans, and…barbacoa. It's been barbacoa for about a year, but I…feel like every two years it…changes. I've been a Chipotle stan since I was a little boy. So, baracoa currently, and then just regular salsa. I like spicy, but I find that their spicy salsa can…overpower it sometimes, just the flavor of it, not necessarily the spice, but the flavor. So…the regular salsa, sour cream, corn, and then I say extra, extra cheese and see what they do with that. And then–this is the key–I get a bag of chips and I…basically use a chip as a fork. That's my [order].
…You’ve got the Chipotle hack down!
Yeah, there you go. Sweet, thanks. That's the greatest question I've ever been asked.
Glad to hear it. [Laughs] So what's your favorite album or artist right now?
I've always been a Jon Bellion fan, and he's starting to release music again. So I'm keeping a close eye on him right now…Something…that I didn't know of…before was this band Geese [see Music Forever Magazine coverage of a Geese show] and their lead singer. His name's Cameron Winter. He just released his first solo album and it's…kind of weird…alt-rock. It's really interesting. And I'm loving it right now.
That's awesome to hear. Yeah, there's definitely a lot of music to explore...
Oh, yeah.
A little bit more about your music, what was the first original song that you wrote and what inspired it?
…The first song that I wrote ever was a song I wrote for…a friend's dog…in seventh grade. It wasn't a real song…I had tried to write songs all throughout…eighth grade, but I feel like it wasn't until freshman year when I finally wrote a song that I was really happy with. And that song was called "Winter Passed,"...I had…a different…middle school experience than most kids. I was homeschooled for a little bit. And I feel like when I went to high school, it took a second of…figur[ing] things out, how people were and…what was expected of me socially and whatnot. And I feel like I wrote this song right when I…figured it all out. I wrote it…on…a walk…My sister usually took me home from school, but on this day, I decided to take the bus for whatever reason. And then, walking home from the bus stop…I just wanted…some quiet and fresh air and and that's when I started writing the lyrics…just came to me when I was walking, which actually happens a lot, when I don't have like, my phone or anything or my phone's dead, and I'm just walking. That's usually when things start to create. That song actually means so much to me. If you look at any of my releases, on Spotify or Apple Music wherever you listen, you can see Winter Passed Records at the bottom because…I always think that song is the start of my writing journey.

Yeah, that's awesome to hear the origin story where it all began. Yeah, so can you tell me a little bit more about your process for writing new songs in general? Do you typically go for the melody first or the lyrics?
Yeah…[There] used to be one way I[‘d] do it, but now it happens in so many different ways…[Inspired by] the music that I grew up listening to like Jason Mraz, John Mayer, Ed Sheeran, Sara Bareilles, Colbie Caillat, these true singer-songwriters, for a long time…I[‘d] just start with a guitar. I sit down, and I start playing. Usually, I find a guitar part that inspires me, not just some simple chords, but maybe the strumming pattern's a little funky, or maybe there's some kind of “[scats a guitar tune while playing air guitar] dum ba doo dah doo” there's some melodic thing in the guitar because I find that if I have a bass to work around, it's easier to write. It's the same as if you play a YouTube beat, it's easier to write a rap than if I just started rapping without any beat. I need something special to work on. Then, I just start singing random melodies with random words. And then certain melodies stick and certain consonants or certain assonants stick. If the melody "[scatting] la da dee da duh," and I’m singing "[scatting to the same tune] la da ‘be enough,’" I’m just playing and I'm like… “I don't know what the line is, but I hear the word ‘enough,’ wanting to come out,” I try to usually respect that…inclination. Over the years, it's changed. Sometimes I'll start by recording at my desk, making a beat or something and that inspires me in a totally different way. There're so many ways, but that…is my go-to, tried and true method.
That's awesome. I know you're a guitarist, so is that your favorite instrument or do you prefer others?
That's my favorite instrument to play. Most of my life, it was piano, and then I just started really grinding the guitar because I wanted to be a really, great guitar player. And now that's my favorite. I love the feeling [of playing guitar]…As a vocalist first, the guitar feels more like a vocal [in] the way you play it. It's a lot more expressive than a piano is. A piano has velocity. You can go [plays a single key on the air piano while progressively increasing in volume], "bum, bum, Bum, Bum, BUM." On guitar, you can do that, too, but it also has character. I can palm mute, and it has that plucky sound, or I can do this [gestures playing vibrato on guitar], and make it [sound] wiggly. There're just so many different ways you can mess with it. And especially as I grew up, I found new ways to play the guitar such as percussive ways to drum and play at the same time and harmonics are a whole thing. There's just so much you could do with the guitar. You see it on TikTok nowadays, you see people playing cellos like guitars, and you see people playing guitars in the craziest ways. People are in the comments like, “my guitar doesn't do that.” [Laughs] It's super funny, but it's true. People are constantly finding new ways to use the instrument, which I think is why it's one of the most prolific American instruments in history.
Yeah, definitely. That's awesome to hear, and you're very talented, so it's always fun to watch you play and everything.
Awww—thank you.
Yeah, and it seems like you get some inspiration from artists like Ed Sheeran who do the percussion and everything…with the guitar as well. So that's really cool to see, too.
Yeah, totally.
If you were to describe your music as if it were a person, how would you describe it?
God. I would say, I think it's very similar to who I am as a person. I always have trouble describing my music to people, because I feel like song-to-song, it differs sometimes. But that's pretty much how I am as a human. I just have a lot of energy. And I think people who meet me could confuse me for just some outgoing human being, but I'm also highly, highly dysfunctionally emotional and intelligent, but to a fault…I overthink…I'm way too self-aware and I'm way too in tune with how I'm feeling and how the people around me are feeling. But at the same time, sometimes when I get excited about something, I can just turn that all off and forget about it. My music would be described as a person who, when around people, is extremely extroverted, but when they are not around people, [is] extremely emotional. That accounts for all my music…super fun or half of my discography is…super sad. So that's a horrible answer, but that's what I have right now. [Laughs]
No, that's awesome. That's cool to hear. Thanks for sharing. I know you do a lot of [TikTok] Live Streams and that's actually how I first learned about your music. So can you talk about how you first decided to start going online and Live Streaming and taking all these requests from people?
Yeah…I was at NYU studying music for about a year and a half, and then I decided to drop out and move to LA. Between the time of dropping out in May and then moving to LA in January, I went home because I knew that's where I could make some money and save up for moving to LA. I was teaching preteens guitar, and I was singing music to babies in Mommy and Me classes. I was doing what I had done all throughout high school, which was playing gigs at restaurants for three hours…I’d also take requests at these gigs and whatnot. But a big part of the time that I had before moving to LA was also figuring out social media. It was always this thing that half the musicians have learned to embrace it, and half the musicians have not done that yet, and I was one of those who was like, “I hate social media. I hate marketing…I was never meant to do this,” because again I was a pretty classic [artist]. I was set in the old ways, because I grew up on 2000 singer-songwriters who would just sign a deal [snaps] and make an album and hope it did well. But I started embracing it,...and I quickly realized that it was very similar just playing live…It reminded me of playing at these coffee houses and bars by the water that I grew up playing at in Florida, taking requests, playing covers. Because of that, I'm really good at playing and focusing on something at the same time. I can…sing and play complicated guitar part, but still read your comments at the same time. It felt very in tune with my expertise, and it worked out, and I started realizing that I was getting a certain amount of followers every time I went Live. This was really good. I felt like for the first time, I was in control of my growth online. And it also opened my eyes to the fact that if you want to find fans…you find them online. There's no reason to resent social media because that's where your people are. Whether it's YouTube, YouTube shorts, Instagram Reels, TikTok, that's where the people are. I don't know where you think you're going to find fans, if you're not going on there. That's where they all are. And that really opened my eyes. Ever since then, when I post on TikTok, which used to feel like a black void—besides the people you know like…your friends and family commenting—now, on Live, I was seeing real people become fans, and make art of me…It was just very, very cool. It brought life into this whole social media thing. And now I'm releasing new music since I started going Live and the whole marketing process feels a lot more natural, and I think it's only going to get better from here.

Yeah, that's awesome to hear. It sounds like a very natural way to connect with your fans and get your music out there so that more people can start hearing it.
Yeah, totally. And, even when I'm off Live, and it's time to post and market the new song, "i dont even know you," I feel like I don't have to market to some pretend audience. I can imagine you guys, because…I know you guys on Live, I know what you're like, so…I have that in mind when I'm marketing. Where, before, I didn't really know what I had to do. I’d just copy what other people did online.
Sure, that makes sense. I love this connection that you have—a personal connection—to your fans. And it seems like connection as a whole is important to you, too. Even with your family as well. I know you released "Charlotte's Song - Live." So can you talk a little bit about that, a beautiful song, by the way…
Awww.
…Can you talk about the feeling behind it and what it means to you?
Yeah, I mean, that song means the world to me…My sister [and I]...didn't get really, really close or understand the meaning of being siblings until we were both in college and we were far away from each other. She would just FaceTime me out of nowhere,…and I'd answer it. Then, we [would] talk for three hours. I didn't realize that that was something that I needed. I was never one to FaceTime or call people who I had been out in touch with. I'm pretty much an in-the-moment type of person. I learned a lot about connection from that…New York…is really crazy. I love New York,…it's one of my favorite cities in the world, but it was a hard place to move to, coming from South Florida where I had all the space and the beach and the sun, and my family and friends and moving to this new place…I've been in new places, but New York is its own beast. Our phone calls and knowing she was there for me always, it really helped me get through it.
I remember writing this song. The song didn't come out, all at once…She would call me, we'd hang up. I'd have a thought and I'd write it down. And then one day, I pieced it all together, and I was like, “oh, my God…this sums up my entire relationship with my sister and how much she means to me.” And I remember I had one of my first gigs with the band in New York the next day, and I played it. I…was all with the band, but…I took that song…just me and the guitar. It was a special moment, and…ever since then, at every show in New York, I would play that song…And now it's really cool, when I started going Live that [song] was one of the big ones that people…kept asking me to play…They really loved it. And for me, it was more just to release, so that my sister could listen to it. I didn't think that people would connect with it, but it's really great that they do.
Yeah, definitely. It's a beautiful song, and I love the lyrics in it—this connection between siblings and how you can be close together emotionally, even if you're not close together physically. You were far apart at the time.
Yeah. And I think that was a theme on—[“Charlotte’s Song”] is not on the EP Frostbite—but it's an auxiliary live double track [to the EP] with ["Charlotte’s Song - Live"] and "TSA - Live.” And the whole Frostbite EP is about how long-distance relationships take so much out of you, and how they could end really poorly. I could get into that whole EP, but the thing about "Charlotte's Song" and "TSA" was that these were both songs about distance, but the…[relationship] with the sibling didn't tarnish from distance. It just, honestly, got stronger.
Yeah, that's awesome to hear. And on the same [theme of] family lines and ties, I know you're planning to play at your mom's wedding coming up. Can you talk a little bit about that or what that means to you?
Yeah [smiles], my mom's getting married on October 10th, 2025. She wants me and my sister to sing, and we're still figuring it out, but I know for sure that I'm gonna sing as they walk down the aisle, "Marry Me" by Train…I presented a bunch of songs to my mom. Obviously, it’s her wedding, [and] she's very particular about it, but there were a few options. There's a song called "Magic," by Coldplay that I really loved. But “Marry Me” was always the clear choice, and I'm very excited.
I feel like a lot of what I do, I do for my mom at this point in my life. Looking back and seeing how much she always supported me and also just how much work she puts in for me and my siblings still to this day—my brother's still in the house, he'll be a senior in high school next year. She's still working so hard. To actually do something for her with my music, I mean, I hope to make a lot of money from music one day and buy her a house or something, but for now, I get to play at her wedding and that means a lot to me.
Yeah, that's beautiful. I'm sure she'll really appreciate having you there [and] having you and your sister perform. That sounds great.
Yeah.
Yeah, going into your other performances as well. I know last year you performed at…Sunfest in West Palm Beach.
Yeah, Sunfest.
How was…it performing in Florida? I'm sure you had friends and family as well as fans all there supporting you.
Yeah, that was cool. That was literally two days after I dropped out of college. I flew home, and I quickly got a band together and we rehearsed the whole set in one day, and played my first festival. It was the festival that I grew up going to. I've seen OneRepublic there, I've seen Diplo there, I've seen Lil Wayne there. I've seen so many great people. I think The Script was there years ago. I grew up on that festival, so it was a huge deal for me. It was a huge deal for my friends and everybody. My teachers from high school showed up. It was a really special experience. And it was nerve wracking too, because I don't play with a band all that often. I'm starting to more now…that's part of the reason I moved to such a music-centric city so I can connect with other musicians who want to play my stuff. But that was one of the first times that I was just up there with my best friend [Daniel Blair], his dad was playing the drums. My best friend was playing the bass, and this other kid that's a really good friend of mine…his name's Mason [McGahey], and he was playing guitar. It was just the four of us, and I mean, we ate. We killed it! Every time I played with a band, I learned a few things. There's a whole dynamic that's different from the way I grew up playing my whole life. I've probably played over 10,000 hours alone at bars and restaurants. I've played a lot of solo gigs, but it's a whole different thing, and it meant a lot to us, that it was at Sunfest, to all of us that were on stage.

Definitely. That sounds like a great experience to actually perform at this…festival…you'd been…attending…for years. So what's one piece of Ben Krieger lore that you wish more people knew about?
Ohh. I’ve got one thing. When I was growing up…before I found theater, which is my first love, I was doing everything. I was always a kid [who] put my all into whatever…whether it was skateboarding or soccer or basketball…One thing, though,...I…really was into magic. I was a full blown magician up until age 13. I did a few…paid bar mitzvahs when I was 11 years old…You could see me performing. If you find it online, that's your, that's your mission, all right?...[Story laughs]…If you're up to the task, to find a video online of me doing magic when I was 11 at a gay bar in Chicago…That's a piece of lore that I feel most people don't really know.
[Laughs] That's awesome. I love to hear it. So are you still into magic? Do you still perform?
I'm not actively practicing or learning new tricks, but I remember a lot. If there's a deck of cards around, I will do a trick.
Okay, I see. We've been talking about your music a lot, but I know that you're also an actor, too. And I saw that you were on the Nickelodeon TV [movie] show California Dreaming. You were starring in this. And your role in that, okay, the name of the character is also Ben, but it seems like he has a very similar experience to you. So did you relate to the character at all…
Yeah, well, the character was written for me. Basically…I was on Broadway when I was a kid, when I was like 11, 12, and that was an amazing experience. After being on Broadway for two years and touring around the country for two years, I was like, “I want to be a normal kid, I'm done acting, I'm done with all of this.” This Nickelodeon project came up about two years after that, when I said I was done acting. I dropped my management and everything. But the reason I auditioned for this was because one of the creators of the show was one of my favorite songwriters—because at this point, I've become a really good guitar player and songwriter—and his name's Ryan Tedder, and he's the lead singer of OneRepublic, and yet he writes for Beyoncé, "Halo”, by Beyoncé, “Rumor Has It” [by] Adele. Ryan Teder, he's the king of pop music. And I was like, "Oh, my God, I want an audition for this.” And then I happened to get it, and it was great. And what was really cool about the project was that they were molding these characters to us. I was on the show with Jenna Raine…She's killing it in music right now. Angelina Green, who…was on America's Got Talent when she was younger, [and] got Heidi [Klum]’s golden buzzer, [the season after] the…season [of] Grace Vanderwall. And then Max [Fincham] and L[iv Simone], it was such a great cast…Similar to how Miley Cyrus’s [character] Miley Stewart [in Disney’s Hannah Montana] was made for her,...they were trying to create brands around us from the show. Sadly, the show didn't end up getting picked up because, COVID threw a [snaps] wrench in the whole plan, but it was really fun. I did a magic trick at the table read. I just did this silly thing where I—imagine this [a tube of lip balm]—is a pencil. I went something like that [performs a hand trick where he *magically* puts the lip balm in his nose and pulls it out his ear] and they were like, “Oh, my God! We gotta put that in the show.” So they made my character a magician, a clumsy magician from the middle of nowhere. I related to the whole thing, and it was comedy, but also drama, what I really love. And it was [a] super great experience. And I met some great people doing it, too.
That's awesome to hear. So where do you find that you're really inspired most creatively at the moment? Is that on the stage, acting or writing songs or maybe somewhere completely different?
I'm inspired from the people that I meet and the things that I do and…the drives…during the day. How that comes out creatively is usually through music because that's what's right in front of me. But it also comes out when I get an audition from my team for an acting job and it's a guy going through something like this, and maybe I've seen that in my day to day life or I've experienced that. But what I really most enjoy in my life is performing music live. If I had to trade everything for one thing to do for the rest of my life, it'd be to play music live. Just [claps hands softly]. There's something about it. It's everything that I love. It's music. It's playing the guitar. It's singing. It's expressing how I feel, but also representing how others feel to them, and we can all connect over that, but I also get to be myself. I love acting, but the difference between being the lead in a movie and playing Madison Square Garden is at Madison Square Garden, you have a…huge room of people relating to you and you get to share with them. Where in the movie you don't get to see it, plus you're not yourself. So I would say the stage is where I feel I belong most, playing music.
Yeah, that's awesome. I know you have this new single coming out on June 6th, “i dont even know you.” Can you talk a little bit about that, the inspiration and your story behind it?
That song was actually my first co-write in a while. I wrote it with my friend Paulina. Paulina was a new friend I met right when I got to LA, and we just set a time for her to come over, and we started writing this song. And it's essentially about just an ex coming back into your life and…you don't really quite know what they want from you. You don't know why they're back in your life, but they hit you with a… “you're different” or “you’ve changed.” And I feel like this is a universal feeling in certain ways…You see people coming back into your life and thinking that you're different or not liking the way you're treating them, but it's totally justified because…“[addressing the ex coming back into his life] if you remember, you broke my heart. I don't owe [it] to you to be nice to you. I don't owe you any of my attention or my time of day. ‘I don't even know you.’” That's the name of the song. That's the lore around it or the inspiration. I'm super excited to release it because…it's super fun to market the upbeat ones…
Yeah, the song seems a little sassy as well. I love that part.
Yea, totally, totally sassy. I love it. I've been in my sassy era.
In your “sassy era” now. I love to hear it! So what's the best way to keep up with you and all your next projects?
Instagram. Instagram is my hub. Instagram is like my brain in social media. My Instagram Story specifically, I feel like you can just gather a lot of what I'm up to and what I'm doing. But, yeah, I would say Instagram, because on Instagram…if there's anything that you guys are missing out on, I'll tell you to go to the link in my bio and my LinkTree's there, and everything's there... TikTok is more of just throwing anything at the wall and seeing what sticks. Plus Live streams, of course…
Oh, awesome. That's really cool to hear. Yeah, so Instagram is the place to find you.
Ohhh, yeah!

…Do you have any self-doubt or how do you navigate imposter syndrome?
Yeah. Yeah. Totally, I like to retrace my steps on how I got here whenever I feel imposter syndrome, which I felt a lot when I first went to NYU. But now being in LA, like 100%. I'm here…I am a musician the same way that other people are, what's the difference between me and Justin Bieber? We're both musicians in LA. He has more followers. That's what I'm trying to be like, but I'm out here now, so I can't be thinking that I don't belong here. I like to look back at the journey that is my life, which I think everyone should do, because it's super inspiring to just take it step-by-step. Maybe draw it out on your wall on a posterboard because it all makes sense when you look at it that way. If you're feeling like you don't belong somewhere, you’re like [points to different parts of the newly created life journey posterboard on the wall], “no, I did this and I did this and I did this, and I listen to this music and it made me make this music here. Then, I was doing this, and I was getting paid for it. Now I'm here and that makes complete sense.” So just keep going, because in 10 years, you'll be able to make an even bigger poster board, and it'll make more sense, but it'll be so much more impressive. But if you stop now…it won't be worth it, none of it will.
No, I think that's a really good point. Sometimes it's hard to really visualize that when you're in the moment, maybe you're struggling with where you're at or, maybe you want to have more followers or whatever it may be today. But if you look back to the previous version of yourself, even before you move to LA, you're like, “look at how far I've come already.”
Yeah, totally. I'm trying to figure out how to make that more and more a part of my brand. My dad told me throughout my life that “life it's not about the goal, but it's the journey.” I'm always around people who are super driven, just like I am, but they're driven in a very goal-oriented way, which is super great and a different way of doing it. But [if]…for some reason of fate and luck, my goals don't work out, at least I wasn't fixated on that my entire life, and along the way, I was really absorbing these moments. Because also in what I do, I need to absorb these moments because that's what makes for good art. My goal in life is to look back when I'm ninety and become overwhelmed with the amount of joy that I can remember. I want my life to feel so rich when I look back at it, and that's my goal more than any monetary or Stream numbers or anything.
Yeah, definitely. That makes sense. That's really beautiful to hear.
Wait, one more thing. I think when I play music, when I play my songs…I want people to relate in a way that makes them feel like they are on a journey unique unto themselves. I want them to feel that when we're playing music live.
Yeah, I love that. I'm sure that all these songs have a certain meaning when you're writing them…as well as when people are listening to your songs, they're interpreting it from their own lens, their own like phase of life…
Yeah.
So you're bringing people on this journey with you. That's awesome to hear.
Yeah!
Okay, any final words or anything you want to share before we wrap up here?
…I've been saying this thing sometimes at the end of my Lives. I've been saying, “you, don't forget, you have a great taste in music.”…Because you found me! That's my new thing…So that's what I'll leave you with: “You have a great taste in music.”
Awesome–I love this tagline. Thanks so much!